My ex contacted me late last night. For the record we are friends, and on good terms. he is having problems with a mutual friend of ours. They go back a long time, and used to be very close. I met her through him, and haven't known her for as long.When we broke up last year, he briefly dated her (two months). For the last 9 month since they broke up their friendship has been fragile at best. I get the sense that he has been doing his best to hold on to the friendship. The things she said to him and her actions are having there toll on him. he told me last night he just can't deal with it anymore. that this was the first time he had cried in years.I had issues with her before, but I attributed that to the fact he and I broke up and she was his friend first. But this seems more like a pattern she has developed. my best friend (convoluted story how we became bffs) used to be close with her but they are no longer friends. It seems like she has driven away almost all of her close long time friends.She plays the victim card a lot when she gets into fights with her friends. I really want to ask her wtf is going on because causing all this pain isn't cool. It only seems like this has been an issue for the last year or so with her. I don't have a direct conflict with her, but her actions are making me uncomfortable. I'm just not sure what to do about it.
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