Why is it so hard?

Does anyone else ever feel like no one will ever love them? I feel like I just don’t get noticed by anyone. I’m on Grindr and I’ve only ever had a handful of people message me first, thinking I was attractive. I mean sure, I’m not exactly ripped, I’ve kinda got a Dad bod going on. I guess I am young (20ish) and looking for someone to spend my life with and everybody is my age is just trying to get off. But I wish someone would come along and just appreciate me for who I am. Is that too much to ask for?