Update: I Thought Dating Would Just Happen

This is an update on my first post (which is now archived ...) it's not a huge development, but it's something I guess.You can read the original here: http://ift.tt/2mJ7Ml4 there has been 1 change since this - I started being more open to saying yes to the kinds of guys who approach me... and letting go a little of some of the fantasy of what I thought sex/love/dating should be and just started accepting it into my life in the way it presents itself.I'm confident with guys on Grindr and have entertained dates/hookups but they never really came to fruition... (can't help it when the guys go cold) and also I bumped into a guy I knew in HS a few weeks ago... we started sleeping together recently. That's been fun. Haha.I still would like to meet someone that is more available for the whole "bf experience" if you know what I mean.I'm sorry I am super #noob at reddit, so if there is a proper protocol to refer to past links, posts, post links, etc then I'm not aware of it yet.X