I want to wrestle.

Ok, so as a 20 something virgin I was thinking about what I would like to do if I hook up, and it boils down to wrestling and cuddling. I wonder how many people want the same?And also, handjobs from the back, I imagine this as being very intimate and nice, like hugging someone from the back and giving them a hanjob? Is this common? Does it seem better in my imagination than reality? :D