I got the conclusion that gay guys and women can't be friends...

From my own experience and after some internet research, and I think this might be depending on their biological gene.I THINK, that when you tell a woman you are gay, that she finds you immediality interesting because you are not afraid of showing emotions. In the western culture its not tolorated to show emotions as a man. And thats why men can seem complicated. That way the lady wants you to become her gay best friend, simply just because she wants to know how the mind works of a man. You just get turned into this object where she can experiments on. Because she wants to become a relationshipmaterial, or become a better gf/wife for her (future) SO. And she wants kids because her biological clock is ticking. And she is simply just using you for that, and camouflage your contact as being friends.So men thats why they are curious about you and find you interesting.Ofc there might be wonderful girls who respect you and wants to become real friends, other then those who only think by their ego's and see you as projects.And from my own experiences be aware of the ones who just broke up or just got divorced and the ones who focus on men and relationships. And those who are trying to put strings on you to control.