Am I gay?

I find thinking about gay acts with almost every man totally gross (no offense) and I am sexually attracted to women but I hate all their personalities at least in my town. I have a friend who many people think is gay or at least bi (he denies this and has made out with one girl total). I think I might be sexually attracted to him because lately I've been wanting to make out and grope his parts and stuff. Does this make me gay? And what do I do about my urges?