Hookup, pursue this "straight" guy who wants to hang, or date? Help!

Hi everyone.I don't know where to start so I'll try to be as articulate as possible.I'm 24, somewhat closeted, and very sexually frustrated... I haven't ever done a random hookup, but dated a few years ago for a few months. It was fun. Now, I have part of the summer free (I'm a teacher) and I suddenly have a lot of time on my hands. My sex drive is much higher and I'm not using it...a weird thing to experience. In short, here are my options to explore: 1) Option 1- hang out with a new friend.There is a "straight" guy who I just met at a party recently. He made a lot of quick but direct eye contact with me and said to add him on facebook to hang sometime. He talked a lot about girls but he also had a high interest in me which I'm not used to from straight guys. Another problem is he lives an hour and a half away. I do have friends in that area. He seems like a very nice person and my hope is that he's gay and we could date..2) Option 2- Hook up with a rando on grindr. I'm pretty desperate. I just want to touch someone (not to sound creepy) and I also have a high libido.3) Option 3- try to get a date. This would take the longest...I do have a few matches on a dating app but usually people just flake out.Basically, I don't know what to do. I've messaged a ton of grindr guys and traded pics, but I've been shy and hesitant to hook up. honestly I'd want something long term but I live in a rural area of the state and am super busy with my job so I don't see anything happening there.I'm really lost. Would love to talk with someone.