being the passive actor in a relationship

Hi. I have only recently really come to terms with being gay (the last month or so). I have a lot of confusion involved. This stems from the fact I thought I was straight for a long long time, almost a decade, but now I realize I am gay. Several men have come onto me and it feels very odd hearing and reading them compliment me and my body. I'm just wondering how I am meant to act and what this all means. After lying to myself for so long, I am just confused at being approached and complimented. It has done a lot of good for my self confidence tho. I'm also pretty heavily mentally ill in addition.The main problem is a lot of dudes I would say are way out of my league are telling me they want to, quote, stuff me. I'm fine with that, in fact I want it, I just have this wall I need to get over. Any advice?