Advice?

Hi, I've identified as bisexual since late high school (turning 28 in a month) and I have kept it a secret. I've done phone sex, webcamming, sexting/trading pictures with guys, but I have yet to have a relationship with a guy (which keeps seeming like a better idea every time I think about it) or physically be with another guy. I haven't had a girlfriend or even slept with a girl since 2011. During this time I've grown more attracted to men. I'm looking for advice on how to go about the dating scene or maybe even a hookup, while trying to avoid sketchy situations of course. Any advice would be great. Thanks guys!