Are younger bald men unattractive

I am 25 and currently have lost quite a bit of hair on the top of my head. I have a decent body and a good looking enough face, but balding so young has taken a huge toll on my self esteem. When I go to the clubs I feel I'm the only guy under 35 with so much hair loss. Baldness runs heavily in my family so I know it's simply a genetic curse out of my control. I started growing heavy stubble on my face to try to distract from the fact I'm lacking hair on my head.Tl;dr Are most gay men shallow enough to find an otherwise attractive man who is balding undesirable?