Are gay soulmate actually exist in Gay community?

I just have to be honest. Im 27 and a virgin. I dont drink and i dont like going to the club nor party so i dont really have any real adult experience. My gay friend keep asking me why havent i do it yet, i will lose my golden age once i hit 30 and i will regret it and a true gay relationship (boyfriend that actually loves you and do it with you only) doesnt really exist. Is it true? I always dream that one day i will meet my soulmate who loves me, that become my boyfriend then my husband just like straight relationship, like my parents/fairy tale/most of disney movies.And when he ask me why havent i did it yet i always answer with because im saving it for that one guy. I mean i dont want to do it with a stranger or many people, i only one to do it with one guy who will be the Mr.Right. but is it even possible in gay life? I know we have gay marriage but those are like one in a million chance. I really really want to save it for the right guy but at the same time im scared that the right guy doesnt exist and i will regret it if i dont do it and died a virgin.And next week i will be traveling with my gay friend and he told me that he will introduce me to his hot friend that would love to take my virginity. Should i do it or not? I dont want to do it because im scared that i might catch some disease but i also want to do it because im horny/curious. And what if gay soulmate exist? Wouldnt it be a problem if im not a virgin when we actually meet each other?