Am I gay?

I have identified as gay for the passed probably 6 years or so. I am still a virgin but the thought of having sex doesn't really appeal to me. I like watching porn and watching guys have sex, but I don't feel the want to have it myself. I find guys attractive and want a relationship with a guy, and I might be okay with sex in a relationship, but little things like travelling together, and cuddling, and home decorating together get me more excited than the thought of sex. So am I gay or something else?