I'm a PRUDE... and I don't fit in

I don't feel comfortable with the in your face sexuality of the gay community and I feel like this automatically makes me BORING to most guys. I WONT have sex with a guy I just meet after 1 date or even a couple. I WILL only have sex with a guy I am in a relationship with, I don't feel like I am wasting my youth as some guy told me. I'm 20 years old and I am a virgin. I know guys talk about me behind my back, I'm pretty well known at my local bars as a PRUDE or a NUN... I just wish there was someone else like me.Where can I met guys like me? Don't say church LOL