Confused af, i think im cheating..

Ive been talking to this dude for like 2 months and i liked him a lot. He spends the night often. We chill often. He says babe and "i love you" and all that shit..but we never officially said we're a thing either sooo i met this dude on tinder and we really hit it off. We talk the same, like the same shows, eat the same food, and just we have a lot in common, ive been hanging out with him for 2 weeks but already i feel closer to him than the other guy i was catching feelings for. I really feel like a fucking hoe and i dont know if the first dude really wants to continue into a serious relationship or what and im not tryna be a fucking asshole either. The only thing i really have in common with the first guy is that we both love to get drunk af and when we have drunken sex and just cuddle all night it feels badass but now i dont even want to sleep with him because deep down i feel fucked up. Just..what yall think is going on? Is 2 months really something to trip about or what? The second guy we say the same stupid shit and hes like a really cool lil homie and when i see him im like "orale compa, wassup man!" And im just hella excited to see him, we actually talk about where we stand as far as relationships too and hes made it clear he wants to start something long term. If it matters im 20, the 2nd guy is 19 and the first guy is 23