Visiting from NYC - Comprehensive nightlife suggestions?

Hello,

I've perused this sub along with the internet for nightlife suggestions and they seem to be everywhere! Also, many suggestions are a few years old and I don't know if those suggestions still hold true.

So everyone, please give me some suggestions! I love ALL sorts of nightlife experiences - clubs with dirty techno beats (consensus seems to be CODA), parties in random warehouses, clubs that require you to dress up, look slutty, and throw money around like it's going out of style, sex/kink parties, queer get togethers, bars where the clientele go wild, clubs for the tragically hip, one off events, best Sunday parties, etc. It's early but I will be in town May 23rd to 25th.

For people from New York - I love going to Meatpacking, Brooklyn warehouse parties, gay parties, bars in the East Village, etc.

Thank you Reddit!