How is it homophobic to get grossed out by two persons of the same sex kissing?... And other such things.

First off, I'm just writing my thoughts here for the sole purpose of getting feedback. I often think about these things randomly and want to hear what the community thinks. Please be open minded and hear the whole thing out before letting emotions affect the way you absorb my opinion.So first, I am very accepting of the gay community these days, but I really don't care all that much. I don't want to be offensive by saying such things, but I only really care about this subject in the slightest due to the fact that so many people are affected by the topic.If there were only four homosexuals in the world, I wouldn't give a damn at all. (Be careful here) However now that there are more and more homosexuals in the world and we are "creating" more, due to giving children the choice to think more open minded about sexual orientation.. I do give a damn because I think people that have a big enough voice should be listened to.My opinion is that we can give our new borns the choice to choose anything. If we say certain things are possible, they will have the option to choose such things. (be open minded here) If I say it's okay and even promote a relationship where two people inflict physical pain on one another(that is, only if these two people both love pain and inflicting on those whom share the same interest), then we will have a large community that loves the feeling of pain and inflicting on those whom love it as well. AND WE SHOULD DEFEND THEIR RIGHT TO DO SUCH ACTS. Just because you're straight doesn't mean you'll sexually harass the opposite sex. Likewise, just because you love and get pleasure from pain, does not mean you inflict it on those who don't want it.But please. I can't stand this "suppressive" shit when it comes to every little identity. If your opinion is small and you are very unordinary, you don't deserve to be heard just because it's a touchy subject. How about giving pedophiles a voice? They are people? They are even HATED by most people. And I'm not saying gays or trans are like pedophiles, I'm saying that we care so damn much about teaching kids to be open to these choices and giving it sooooo much unneeded importance. Why not just promote everything equally. Including violence, including pedophilia, etc. They all may be natural to our pleasures, and we shouldn't suppress them any more than homosexuality if it doesn't hurt people that do not want to be involved in such acts.And no it's not homophobic to get grossed out by two guys making out, yet not care about two of the opposite sexes making out. Because if you're not attracted to it and not used to it, then yeah it's similar to seeing two 85 year old obese people making out without their teeth. People may just think its nasty to see.I for one, do not care about seeing two guys make out, but that's just me. I think the real big thing, is to just care more about not caring at all.Love all, accept all, and be happy :)