Hemor...Gross. Help!

I've had hemorrhoids (both in/external) since 14. I have a stapling scheduled for the end of next month but I'm going on a date with a guy who seems like everything I want in a man THIS WEEK!He's already talked about wanting sex but also being willing to wait if needed (but with the importance he places on sex, a month may be out of the question).Any advice for preparing in advance and on the day of to alleviate symptoms so that bottoming well and without turning this guy off for future encounters would be priceless right about now. :/