black, gay and Irish

So I am finding it difficult being a young black gay man in Ireland been here basically all my life dealt with a lot of things being a first generation black Irish kid let alone gay. Then get onto the gay scene here and deal it a lot of stupid old stereotypes like messages like "r u hung" and a few "hello blacky messages" though i love this place its home but its becoming eveident i will have to leave the isle to find better opportunities for work (our economy is a mess), some expect me to be like the black guys on tv basically stereotypes its frustrating all i want to do is talk about economics and the worlds political landscape it gets hard sometimes feel alone but have friends who are mixed gay and supporting me just wanted to vent. from an black (a lil drunk) Irish guy