Hey guys! Been following this subreddit for the past 10 or so months, but havent been bothered to create an account of my own, but now its time. Im struggling right now, and have seen how you guys have helped each other out in the past, including myself from reading it all. So this is a New to gaybros/coming out/letting of some steam post. I hope i dont break of the posting rules.My question to you all are; How did you get through a really rough time in your life? Any advices for younger bro on how to make it through to the bright side? I need some help to cope right now. Finished high school in june -14, and now i just feel lost and helpless. Been long distance dating (Sweden - UK) an amazing guy for 9 months now which is amazing but since i returned from the UK last time ive just been restless and anxious. Im stuck with a night time job in a field i dont really want, about to move into an apartment that is a quite expensive, in a city where i feel quite alone since almost all my classmates moved after school. Dont have time to work out, or meet the few people i know. All i want is to move over, or to travel/do something fun in my life.I dont talk to my family anymore, since they're not really happy about me dating a guy, even though they met him before they knew we were dating, and really liked him. I told them a few days after he had left, and i was still visiting them. Nothing i had planned on doing, but i just felt like i couldnt keep it in anymore. I sat down at the table, and was like; "There is something i have to tell you. Me and X are not just friends, we are actually dating since a few months back." The reaction wasnt really positive, which i was prepared for but at least Im still welcome home - unless i have my BF with me. They have made it very clear that they are not supporting this in any way, and that they will not give me any money, or lend me any money to help me afford seeing him. Their main worry is that someone in church, or in the village will find out. What will they say, how will we be treated, what will your sisters friend say to her? Mom texts me sporadically, and sometimes tries to call. I try to avoid talking to them as much as possible though. Mom and my sister just cries, dad is trying to tell me how hes not happy about it in a really passively agressive way, and i know talking to them just makes me sad, annoyed, and feeling alone. Missed my sisters 18th birthday, and her getting her drivers licence. I feel shit about it!I dont know what i want to do with my life, and i feel like im just wasting the years in my life when im meant to be young, happy, and do crazy stuff.tl;dr New bro here, having a hard time. How did you make it through the rough times in your life?
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