Hi there folks, it's your resident Dom again, as always looking to chat with kinky and curious people about the world of BDSM. I've been having a ton of fun swapping stories and educating people and I have no desire to let that stop, so I encourage you all to message me!
A little about myself - I've been a dom "officially" for about six years, four years strictly in the bedroom and two as a part of my city's local BDSM community. In that time I've met dozens of new wonderful people (including a few girlfriends/submissives) and experienced some frankly amazing stuff that I never thought I would.
As always, here's a brief list of the answers to my most asked questions, in case you're curious:
I am a straight man. I do, however, play with male subs pretty regularly in a nonsexual way. **
I am firmly a dom and did not enjoy the few times I've attempted submission.
While I have been paid for my services as a dom in the past it isn't currently a viable source of permanent employment for me.
My specialty is impact play--whipping, flogging, caning, spankings, that sort of thing. I am however pretty good at most kinky things you can think of, with the exception of rope bondage. I am hilariously bad at rope bondage.
I am currently in a polyamorous relationship with my girlfriend and one other woman. They know about my other partners and I know about theirs. We're all very happy together under these circumstances.
"The most shocking thing I've seen" isn't at all sexy or titillating. If you're asking me with the intention of getting off on my answer you're going to be sorely disappointed.
The BDSM community as a whole is extremely accepting of gays, lesbians, genderfluids, cross-dressers, and/or any other "alternative" sexual identification. It would be hypocritical as sexually alternative people to harshly judge "the wrong type" of sexually alternative person.
If you'd like to join your local community my recommendation would be to join FetLife and find out about events in your area. I would recommend attending an event called a 'munch' first.
And that's about it! As always I hope that this post has piqued your interest, and if you have even the slightest inclination that you'd like to chat with me (be it filthy or ortherwise) I strongly encourage you to send me a message. I promise I don't bite unless you really want me to.
** This is not an invitation to try to make me go gay. Guys, I'm flattered, really, but seriously. Straight as an arrow.
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