Puppy play - learning to be a handler/owner

Hey guys,So me and my ex bf are getting back together slowly whilst working on some things. But in the mean time I'm wanting to learn more about how to be an effective trainer/owner.Him = a cute, somewhat disobedient/stubborn leather pup.Me = a bear who wants to make his fantasies come true.Basically so far I've read sirius pup's website and learnt a few things from there on how to be an effective compassionate trainer (he's submissive but doesn't want a trainer/owner who is hugely into punishment.Does anyone have recommendations she's i can learn more.