I want a gay sugar daddy but not for the reasons you think. How & where do you find one?

I'm a 24 year old gay male from Miami, Fl seeking an slightly older, wealthy professional. But not because I want you to take care of me and give me money. If anything, I'd want someone who wasn't born with money, but has made it by working hard. I am a young entrepreneur and often find the men I date lack the ambition I and focus I have. Most gay men my age are focused on partying and sleeping with the next hot thing. I'd like an older man who can respect my desire to succeed and who would support and mentor me along the way. I feel that only a successful older man would be able to provide this for me. However, I don't want my family and friends to judge me for wanting to date an older, wealthy guy because of the stigma that's attached to sugar babies. Should I feel this way?