DAE still have issues with closet habits after coming out?

I was pretty much out to everyone except my family through highschool but went through a phase for about 3 years were i convinced myself i was straight and that my homosexuality was actually a phase. Other than existing psychological problems there were a lot of other reasons albeit ill perceived. During this time I took to certain habits like, checking out women, getting sucked into stupid ego battles and other displays of masochistic behavior to fit in with my guy friends/coworkers. Now, after a few happenings and a lot of maturing and contemplation i've been out completely for about a year but I still have some of those habits. Mostly the checking out women. It so strange because I know I'm not bi, and it's not sexual. I just still notice their lady parts like I'm still expected to comment on "that chicks nice ass" or whatever. I've put in a lot of effort to reverse this psychological damage through absorbing as much lgbtq media as possible and getting on the various subs here but it seems like I still have a long road ahead before I come to a full acceptance of this awesome part of me.. Does anyone else deal with this currently and is there any advice the veterans here could give to help me and others get past these annoying issues?TLDR; DAE still suffer from straight acting habits and does anyone have advice to offer?