Advice Needed: Another pond to fish in

Hi everyone, needing some more advice again. I made a post here a while back asking for some advice, if you want to check that out to get a little personal background about me:http://ift.tt/1GjT0o7 issue now is, I'm getting tired of meeting the same kinda guys using the same methods I've been using. Here is what I am looking for and what I've been using:I would like a guy mostly like myself. I am masculine, relatively fit (160#, 31" waist, flat stomach but no 6 pack), have a good job, smart, loyal, and honestly trying to find someone interested in an LTR. Two strikes I can figure I have against me is I am short (5'6") and I am not ripped/hyper muscular. But that should only matter to superficial guys, and fact is, they generally aren't interested in an LTR - so shouldn't matter anyway.I am not into gay culture, I don't feel comfortable in those locations or events, so I don't go to gay bars or clubs or join specifically gay oriented organizations. So I have used mainly online dating or phone apps, only to find most guys on there are either just after sex/hookups, or else not my type.So question is: where do I find other guys who like guys, carry themselves more like guys (aren't stereotypical), aren't into gay culture, and who take care of themselves (physically and financially)?Bonus question, am I asking for something impossible looking for a guy like myself? Are guys like me just that rare in the gay community? (Masculine, moderately fit, financially stable, interested in an LTR)Thanks!