Question about identification preference

Hey everyone,This question is not meant to offend anyone or cause any issues. This question is just pure curiosity.If a lesbian dresses as a male and would prefer to be seen as the "male figure" in the relationship, does that make them part of the transgender community? Same question for gay males as well. Please let me know so I may identify people correctly. I don't want to accidentally misrepresent and disrespect someone.Thanks everyone 😊