Dealing with Family

This post might be more of a vent type situation than actually seeking advice, but any kind of comments are welcome. I just graduated from college can returned home for a week before going on a 2.5 week long vacation with my family to Europe. My backstory with my family is long enough to write an entire other post, but to summarize: basically myself (21) and my brother (18) are gay, my mom is a neurotic freak who has refused to make any steps in the past two years to deal with it, and my dad is the most apathetic person I've ever met. My mom is a firm believer in ignorance is bliss and refuses to allow my brother and I to act as we truly are at home. We always put up a front, to the point that the rest of the family and family-friends don't know. College was a safe haven for me where I was allowed to be who I am, and my brother is just about to experience that.I've been home for a total of 2 days and I'm already about to tear my head out. I can't deal with my family's total ignorance, and I feel like I have no escape; especially once I'm trapped with them halfway across the world. I'm thankful for my brother, and I'm thankful I'm in a situation that I will be starting a job away from home in a few weeks, so I guess I just need to suck it up in the meantime. Vent completed.