Matt Baume brilliantly goes through 4,000 years of "traditional marriage" rules to show how marriage has always been redefined for the better -- "Until 1993 it was legal for a man to rape his wife in some states…outlawing spousal rape was a radical redefinition of marriage going back 1000s of years"

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=90_UlLSz6Nc