New:where to start?

So, backstory first. I'm a shy guy who's kind of scared of social interactions. This fear and the fact I wasn't out to my family and friends until recently (I'm 23) made me unable to explore my sexuality. But now I got no excuses and I want to step out of my comfort zone and do stuff, so I'm here looking for advice. I have two roads I can follow:Doing it the normal way: meet people, join gay clubs, maybe bars and see if something happens. This would be the slow one, and I probably wouldn't make the first move with anyone.Grindr. Brutally fast, I can just log on, meet someone and go straight to sex. This would be probably awkward since I have no idea what to do, I never even kissed anyone. But it could be an efficient way to get some experience for the real world.What do you guys think?