Does anyone have advice on dating?

I'm sure we've all been here... I am 21, about to be a senior in college. I have dated girls and guys. But exclusively been with guys for the past four years now that I know I'm gay anyway, long story short, I am really struggling with finding someone to date or become boyfriends with. I hear of couples all the time and just don't see how it happens. I know that my town is sort of small. We do have one gay club (party), but that's it. And pride once a year. But we don't have any other gay club (extracurricular) type things to meet gays with similar interest. So I've always had to resort to using tinder and Grindr.... Both of which don't go too well as we all know haha.Any ideas on what I should do? I'm not extremely outgoing and an apparent gay person so that's also a hindrance on my part. And I like staying at home a lot or my dorm since I don't know where to go meet people (when I'm not with friends).I'm really wondering if it's like this is most places or just my town. After college, I am really debating moving to another city just to try something else. Even if it would be easier to establish a career here... I just don't want to be a single 50 year old years later and live alone. I genuinely want to love and care for someone while we date.Sigh.... Any advice??